I enjoy making friends on net ; we all do - and may be most of us are here for the 'very reason' of reaching out to others and share our views and much more ; We all make many friends ,sometimes ,after reading the profile and the write ups' and  maybe there are times when we don't care that much for the details ,  however we add friends almost as  a routine on net in our 'kitty'. This habit makes me wonder sometimes -"?are we going too fast in making friends on net and  do we care 'sincerely' for all our friends like we do in our daily life . Perhaps the answer is complex, as in our daily [real???????/]life also we are sometimes not able to reach out to every friend of us. if so , then why i am comparing the two things.  i ask myself and others - do we make friends on net like as we do shopping in a shopping mall where we buy things on our instinct and once in the house we even dont know where the prized possesion [at the time of shopping ] is lying in the house ,and to be only thrown out when the expiry date is crossed. it happens in my house sometimes , i don't want this thing to creep into my relations  on net , i care for them, each one of them, but still when the 'kitty' becomes too large it is difficult to remain in contact with all of them . And there are some FRIENDS who after initial enthusiasm of making friends suddenly become cold , they stop visiting u , and even stop replying to u ,even though u care for them and u did nothing wrong to them .  Talk of Perceptions on net !!! i can , most of the time , feel my friends on net, eventhough i cannot see them and most of the time their names are also hidden . i hope i never become cold in my relation with friends on net [ i fear this all the time]. 'Wishing' everyone good on net is the easiest thing to do for so many people, but Do we care truly for each one of them or are they mere aquaintences??//