Whom do we love actually when we claim to love someone . Is it the physical aspect / personality / external charm /or goodness of the person . Even if we know the person and love for the goodness of the person , do we ever really know the core of the person we love . Sadly in most relations we are deprived of knowing and realising the core of the person and thus remain unsatisfied . Strangely we are unable to connect with the person we claim to love on the core of our soul; and we might connect with somebody we hardly know of , in an instant , at the depth i am talking about ;and here we are not given the choice to switch over '